You know that feeling when your hair is growing out and it’s stuck in the phase where nothing you do makes it look good? Sometimes your sexuality can act in the same way. Whether you’ve been in a relationship for five years or you’re just not feeling that into yourself lately, you may be in a sexual rut. The good thing about ruts is that they eventually end and unlike the hair issue, there’s things you can do to help it along.
A lot of conversations during girls nights revolve around sex and reminders from your friends can help remind you of your sexual self.
Purchase a Toy
Toys can be fun and different whether used alone or with a partner. Even being in the store can help bring some thoughts into your head.
Discuss a Fantasy
Sit down with your partner and discuss a fantasy that you’ve had. You don’t need to actually do it for things to get steamy.
Watch a Movie
Watching and hearing others have sex can start getting your body in the mood for your own sexy fun.
Whether a hotel nearby or even in a car, being somewhere that you aren’t used to can create sexy feelings.
Buy Some Lingerie
Many of us women know, lingerie is more about you than your partner. Wearing something sexy can help make us feel sexy.
Sext It Up
Sexting is great because it lets the less natural of us have time to think of things to say to the receiver. It’s also fun to know that someone is reading your texts at work or around others.
Write Down a Sexy Memory
Try to think of your sexiest memory and write it down. Not only will it help you out now but will also be around for future ruts.
Putting a little more effort than you normally do into getting ready can be the little push that you need to start feeling sexy again. Even the longest of relationships can be impacted by a little extra effort.
How do you get out of a sexual rut? Let us know in the comments!